Toni Payne, the previous wife of popular singer, 9ce has stated that the majority of Nigerian women are okay being married to a cheating partner.
She said, most girls know their partners cheat but still stay due to what society will say.
She says she as an individual can’t because she cares such a lot about her health.
She also said she has lived all her life without an STD and isn’t able to get one now from a partner that cheats.
She concluded by saying the Nigerian society is anti-women.
What she wrote on her Instagram page;
“I know tons of Naija women are ‘ok’ with men that cheat and our backward ass Naija society tags you as ”not strong” if you chose to not put up with it.. plus the tag ‘Mrs’ is so important to some, that they might risk their lives for it.
That whole society in my opinion is anti-woman and really f3cked up but that’s a subject for an additional day. As for men, I might never stick with a serial cheat because besides the emotional and mental trauma it brings, the fear of catching an std won’t let me. Yeah, some lie and conceal it. That risk is unquestionably there.
Knowingly putting my health in danger is what I cant do. I’ve gone all my life without STD and I’d wish to just about keep it that way. Also. I put ok in quotes for a reason.. cos is anyone truly comfortable with it. Or they only pretend to stay up appearances.”